Wally Perrien: Time to decide what you want in your life, and what he wants in his.I promise you, NO MATTER WHAT HE SAYS, he either is losing money with gambling, or he WILL be losing money by gambling. (Important - if he tells you otherwise, he is lying. Gamblers lie.)One of you has to change. Either YOU need to accept the fact that you are getting into an even longer relationship with a gambler who probably can't control himself anymore, OR HE has to change his ways and agree to not gamble again.I pity you if you choose the first choice. It's a hard life - constantly being broke and constant lies. If you both agree on the 2nd choice, your boyfriend is going to need lots of help. You will NOT be able to trust him at his word. You'll need to insist on seeing paychecks and bank statements so he can prove that he's actually quit for good.Of course if neither of you is willing to change, cut your losses at 1 year 9 months. It's better than wasting your whole life awa! y with a gambling bum....Show more
Monroe Rainey: Talk to him?
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